I received this from a friend this morning in my email and it touched me and I thought it should be passed on to my blog family. Hope it blesses you as well. Maybe you've seen it before. Will be good to read again.
One day a teacher asked her students to list the names of the other students
in the room on two sheets of paper, leaving a space between each
name.
Then she told them to think of the nicest thing they could say
about each of their classmates and write it down.
It took the
remainder of the class period to finish their assignment, and as the students
left the room, each one handed in the papers.
That Saturday, the
teacher wrote down the name of each student on a separate sheet of paper, and
listed what everyone else had said about that individual.
On
Monday she gave each student his or her list. Before long, the entire class
was smiling. 'Really?' she heard whispered. 'I never knew that I meant
anything to anyone!' and, 'I didn't know others liked me so much,' were most
of the comments.
No one ever mentioned those papers in class again.
She never knew if they discussed them after class or with their parents, but
it didn't matter. The exercise had accomplished its purpose. The students were
happy with themselves and one another. That group of students moved
on.
Several years later, one of the students was killed
in
Vietnam and his teacher attended the funeral of that special student.
She had never seen a serviceman in a military coffin before. He looked so
handsome, so mature.
The church was packed with his friends. One by
one those who loved him took a last walk by the coffin. The teacher was the
last one to bless the coffin.
As she stood there, one of the
soldiers who acted as pallbearer came up to her. 'Were you Mark's math
teacher?' he asked. She nodded: 'yes.' Then he said: 'Mark talked about you a
lot.'
After the funeral, most of Mark's former classmates went
together to a luncheon. Mark's mother and father were there, obviously waiting
to speak with his teacher.
'We want to show you something,' his
father said, taking a wallet out of his pocket 'They found this on Mark when
he was killed. We thought you might recognize it.'
Opening the
billfold, he carefully removed two worn pieces of notebook paper that had
obviously been taped, folded and refolded many times. The teacher knew without
looking that the papers were the ones on which she had listed all the good
things each of Mark's classmates had said about him.
'Thank you so
much for doing that,' Mark's mother said. 'As you can see, Mark treasured
it.'
All of Mark's former classmates started to gather around.
Charlie smiled rather sheepishly and said, 'I still have my list. It's in the
top drawer of my desk at home.'
Chuck's wife said, 'Chuck asked me
to put his in our wedding album.'
'I have mine too,' Marilyn said.
'It's in my diary'
Then Vicki, another classmate, reached into her
pocketbook, took out her wallet and showed her worn and frazzled list to the
group. 'I carry this with me at all times,' Vicki said and without batting an
eyelash, she continued: 'I think we all saved our lists'
That's
when the teacher finally sat down and cried. She cried for Mark and for all his
friends who would never see him again.
The density of people in
society is so thick that we forget that life will end one day. And we don't
know when that one day will be.
So please, tell the people you love
and care for, that they are special and important. Tell them, before it is too
late.
Yes, I have seen that one before but it is definitely worth reading again. I think it really is SO important to tell people how much they mean to us, whether it be family or friends, whilst we still can. Good post my friend.
ReplyDeleteThis story is so beautiful. If only people knew how loved they are or what they meant to other people it would make them feel so good. Positive comments can give us all self-confidence. People saying nice things to me on my blog has made a real impact on my life.
ReplyDeleteI have loved this since I first read it, and it is in fact something I do every year with my students. One boy last year who had a lot of troubles said it was the best therapy he's ever had.
ReplyDeleteThis reminds me of the stories our friend Shelly likes to tell. I would add to it by saying that "people you love and care for" should include more than just family members. Go out of your way to make a stranger feel important, special, respected, admired and loved unconditionally. See how it makes you feel.
ReplyDeleteI loved reading this story, was my first time reading it! Thank you very much for sharing. Just a kind word to someone can make their world turn around for the better and everyone deserves to shine.
ReplyDeleteRe-reading the story brings the same emotions as it did the first time!
ReplyDeleteOh, I totally thought of Shelly when reading this!! I knew it would be something she would do!!
ReplyDeleteThanks Odie, I'd never seen this!
Just wonderful, thank you for sharing
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